The Power of Everyday Resilience

Honestly, it isn’t just one big, shiny thing. It’s a thousand small sparks that keep showing up even when I feel tired, uncertain, or a little lost. It’s spiritual, it’s psychological, it’s painfully human, and it’s very “right now.”

First, people motivate me. Especially the ones who don’t have much except their stubborn dedication. I see them, waking up early, practicing in quiet rooms, studying under dim lights, showing up again after rejection, and I think, “If they can keep going with so little, surely I can do my part with what I have.” Their consistency is like a mirror that humbles me and lights a fire at the same time.

Second, tiny wins motivate me more than I expected. I was honestly heartbroken for a year because not even a single copy of my book was selling. It felt like shouting into a void. And then, yesterday, someone bought my first book on Amazon. Just one sale. But I can’t tell you how happy I was. It was like the universe whispering, “See? Keep going.” That one moment gave me so much hope and made me want to write more. It reminded me that progress is often invisible until it suddenly isn’t.

Third, your words motivate me. The comments on my writing, whether it’s on WordPress, YouTube, LinkedIn, or Instagram, mean more than likes ever could. When someone says, “This helped,” “I felt seen,” or “I needed this today,” it feels like a sacred exchange. I write from my heart, but your kindness gives that heart a reason to keep beating publicly. Every thoughtful comment becomes a little anchor for the next piece I’m afraid to share.

On a deeper level, meaning motivates me. Not the kind that looks good on a vision board, but the kind that sits in your chest when you’re alone and asks, “Who are you becoming?” I’m motivated by the idea that my work could soften someone’s day, that my words might be the hand someone reaches for in their 2 a.m. spiral. If I was given this voice, there must be a reason. That belief keeps me going when metrics don’t.

Spiritually, I’m motivated by moments of stillness, short prayers, quiet gratitude, and the simple reminder that I don’t have to carry everything by myself. I think of life like a conversation with something bigger than me. Some days I speak. Some days I listen. On the worst days, I just breathe, and somehow that counts too. The more I lean into trust, the less I need external proof to keep moving.

Psychologically, I’m motivated by the science of small steps. Our brains love tiny promises kept: one page written, one walk taken, one message answered, one video recorded even if it’s not perfect. The nervous system relaxes when it knows I won’t abandon myself. That calm becomes energy. And that energy turns into momentum. It’s not glamorous, but it works.

And I won’t lie: today’s generation has its own storms. We scroll through highlight reels and compare them to our bloopers. We call it “hustle” and then wonder why our hearts feel empty. We measure attention like it’s oxygen. But even in this noise, what motivates me is choosing depth over spectacle. Choosing craft over clout. Choosing to be useful over being famous. I want to make things that help people breathe a little easier, not just scroll a little faster.

A few more things that keep me going:

  • Seeing people rebuild after heartbreak. There’s something holy about resilience.
  • The DMs that say, “I was going to give up, and then I read this.”
  • Long walks without my phone, where ideas finally catch up to me.
  • A good routine: water, sunlight, movement, journaling, simple rituals that make my brain feel like home again.
  • Learning. Podcasts, books, lectures, anything that reminds me I’m allowed to grow in public.
  • Service. When I’m stuck, I try to help someone else. Purpose always clears the fog.

So what motivates me? Real people, small wins, kind words, quiet faith, and the promise that even one honest piece of work can make a difference to someone I’ll never meet. Yesterday’s single book sale felt like a door cracking open. Your comments feel like light pouring in. And the dedication I see in others, especially those who have so little but give so much, reminds me to keep showing up, imperfectly but wholeheartedly.

I’m here. I’m learning. I’m writing. And I’m not giving up.

P.S. A Little Note from My Heart
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4 responses to “The Power of Everyday Resilience”

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  1. Good Evening, Neha!

    Congratulations for the book sell!🎉🎉 I’m happy for you.
    The meaningful personal messages you received shows how effectively you are able to connect to your readers.

    Writing. Your consistency at present in writing blogs really amazes me.

    The energy and flow you carry is so much strong, that even I hesitate, take a pause, before responding with some words here. The strength you carry is immeasurable, or it is as strong and tall as the Himalayas are.

    First of all the title of the post, “The Power of Everyday Resilience” gives a lot of clarity. This title clarifies my thoughts also.
    Everyday I begin my morning with some thoughtful talk, asking myself, what’s today’s agenda or plan.
    Resilience of our thoughts, energy, interests, aptitude and courage is needed.

    The racing city. In the cities everyone is busy doing something. And the youngsters like us, they run towards the libraries to secure their seats since the morning. Entire nation is busy with the books on their desks and chairs. Their is a quiet meditation going on in the groups.
    When everyone is excited to make their day meaningful and relevant you don’t want to be left behind.

    The small achievements. You explain it well. The real joy isn’t having big titles and awards or wearing fancy dresses like models, it exists in the small things. This worls like God has placed the happiness in these little things. Those who find them, gets happy. Those aren’t they live a meaningless life in frustration.

    Comments. Comments certainly are motivating. They have kept me live here for a long time. The comments I get on my blog really moves me. They give me the chance to reflect on myself positively, otherwise, it feels as if everyone is trying to drag you down or stop you.
    It’s funny to hear when you use humour on my post. I don’t feel bad. Life is like that some things are silly, unexpected, and unique in many ways.

    Psychology. As a History student History feels unbearable at some point. I used to have deep interest in History initially but the subject is getting affected by many factors and people at present. But I continue with it. Afterall it is my subject.
    Similarly studying Psychology can be overwhelming for you in many ways. The way I add a historical background of a topic manytimes you highlight psychological aspects of a particular topic or issue.
    Currently you feel like a therapist, and I’m very thankful to you for ‘being here’ at present.

    I’m enough aware on my own, and feel curious to learn new things. So I want to add as less weight or responsibility of myself on others as I can.
    The Social Media age of today demands Psychologists for various roles in many ways. I feel the future belongs to the Psychology students.

    Spirituality is a subjective topic. I have felt disconnected to the rest world, restlessness and numerous questions kind of situation in the past. I don’t show this side of mine publicly often. I have chosen to accept the usual material life at some extent.
    I want to explore the spiritual path but I need to take care of my family as well. I have read Swami Vivekananda’s biography and I’m very much influenced or inspired by it subconsciously.

    Loving God and having faith in him/her is better than trusting humans, manytimes. Humans easily turn egoistic, greedy and think too narrow and limited.
    When you realise your true being and nature you’ll stop seeing negativity and hate in others.

    It’s healthy to believe that you don’t carry the weight of the world, God is there for this purpose. This basic fundamental rule differentiates the group culture of the East from the Modern scientific culture of the West.
    None are perfect. We need a balance. Strong social relations improve our satisfaction, emotional health and overall happiness.

    Thank you for this post, Neha!
    This post itself is an important milestone.
    Keep writing and sharing your positivity! Make sure you don’t get negatively affected by all this.

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    1. Good Morning 🌸
      Thank you so much for such a thoughtful comment, it really means a lot to me. I love how you put resilience and small joys into words, it feels so true. Your reflections on history, psychology, and spirituality were beautiful to read, and I’m grateful for the encouragement. Your support honestly keeps me motivated to keep writing. 🙏✨

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