Coping with Panic Attacks: Tips and Strategies

We live in an era where our nervous systems rarely get a true pause. Constant “pings” from phones, breaking news headlines about climate change, fluctuating job markets, inflation worries, family expectations, and the endless hustle culture have created an environment where our minds are on guard more than they rest. In urban India, this pressure is compounded by long commutes, competitive workplaces, rising cost of living, and the invisible emotional toll of balancing traditional family roles with modern aspirations. In rural India, it can take a different form, lack of access to mental health services, societal stigma around seeking help, and cultural pressures that often dismiss emotional distress as “weakness.”

Globally, over 300 million people live with anxiety disorders, and the trend has been steadily increasing since the 1990s. India is no exception, in fact, the National Mental Health Survey (2015–16) estimated that nearly 3.6% of Indians live with some form of anxiety disorder at any given time, with higher rates among women, urban residents, and younger adults. Post-pandemic studies suggest these numbers may now be higher, especially among students, working professionals, and caregivers.

Anxiety vs Panic: Quick Clarity

While anxiety and panic share some symptoms, their patterns and intensity differ:

  • Anxiety usually creeps in gradually. It may start as overthinking, muscle tension, irritability, or restlessness, often tied to specific stressors, deadlines, exams, relationship strains, or financial uncertainty.
  • Panic attacks arrive like a sudden storm, intense surges of fear that peak within minutes, often with racing heart, shortness of breath, chest tightness, trembling, dizziness, sweating, and the overpowering thought, “I’m going to die” or “I’m losing control.”

Panic attacks can occur in isolation or as part of panic disorder, a condition where these attacks are recurrent and often lead to avoidance behaviors (avoiding crowded markets, public transport, or even stepping outside alone).

How Common is Panic Disorder?

In the United States, around 2.7% of adults live with panic disorder in a given year, and 4.7% will experience it at some point in their lifetime.

In India, exact nationwide data for panic disorder is limited, partly due to under-reporting and stigma, but smaller community studies suggest panic attacks affect between 1–3% of adults annually. Urban stress, lack of awareness, and minimal school or workplace mental health education mean many people suffer in silence, often mistaking panic symptoms for heart disease or “weak nerves.”

What’s happening in your body during a panic attack

Your threat system slams the accelerator (adrenaline, rapid breathing), your CO₂ levels drop, and light-headedness, tingling, and chest pressure can follow. People with panic disorder are often more sensitive to CO₂, even lab tests that gently raise CO₂ can trigger panic in a subset of patients. This is one reason slow breathing helps: it steadies CO₂ and downshifts the alarm.

Why it feels worse today

  • Doomscrolling: Compulsively consuming negative news is linked with lower well-being and higher distress; recent summaries and studies show clear associations with anxiety. Tip: set “news windows” and avoid late-night scrolling.
  • Social media overload: Meta-analyses tie problematic use to higher depression/anxiety in young people; it’s not all bad, but more isn’t always better.
  • Caffeine culture: For most adults, ≤400 mg/day is the general “upper safe” limit (about 3–4 coffees), but people with anxiety or panic can be extra sensitive. At high doses (~5 cups’ worth), caffeine can provoke panic in many with panic disorder
  • Sleep squeeze + hustle: Short sleep, pressure to be “always on,” and financial or climate stress keep the threat system primed. (See the breathing plan below to nudge it down.)

If you’re having a panic attack right now (save this)

  1. Name it: “This is panic, not danger. It will pass.” If it’s your first episode or there’s new chest pain or fainting, seek urgent medical care to rule out other causes.
  2. Breathe with a long, slow exhale: Try 4-in / 6-out belly breathing for 3–5 minutes. NHS’s calm-breathing drill is a great template.
  3. Ground your senses: 5-4-3-2-1 (name 5 things you see, 4 feel, 3 hear, 2 smell, 1 taste). It yanks attention out of the fear spiral.
  4. Stay (if safe): Let the wave rise and fall. Repeated safe exposure teaches your brain the sensations are tolerable.
  5. Skip stimulants for the day: No caffeine/nicotine until tomorrow.

What actually helps long-term (evidence-based)

  1. CBT (with exposure) is a front-line treatment.

CBT for panic uses interoceptive exposure (safely recreating body sensations like fast breathing or dizziness) so you unlearn the “fear of fear.” It’s one of the most studied, effective approaches for panic. Internet-CBT can help when access is limited.

  • Medication (often SSRIs/SNRIs).

Antidepressants (especially SSRIs) are widely recommended for anxiety disorders and panic; many people do best with CBT + meds. (Benzodiazepines may be used short-term, but they’re generally not first-line for ongoing care.)

  • Skills that turn the alarm down between attacks.
  • Breath training (box breathing, 4-7-8, or simply longer exhales).
  • Movement & sleep routines (consistency beats perfection).
  • Digital hygiene: schedule news checks; keep phones out of the bedroom.

A gentle 4-week self-plan (publishable checklist)

Week 1 – Understand & track

  • Panic log: trigger, body sensation, thought (“I’m dying”), action (fled/stayed), intensity 0–10.
  • Daily 5 minutes of long-exhale breathing (twice/day).

Week 2 – Body confidence

  • Interoceptive drills (with a professional if you can): 60s brisk stair walk (heart racing), 60s head turns (dizzy), 60s straw breathing (air hunger). Stay and let the sensations fall.
  • Caffeine cap: ≤200–300 mg/day (or trial decaf week).

Week 3 – Situation exposure

  • Build a ladder (e.g., short elevator ride → long ride; short queue → busy supermarket). Repeat each step until anxiety drops by half without escape behaviors.

Week 4 – Maintenance & meaning

  • Sleep/wind-down plan, scheduled news windows, weekly joy activity (walks, art, prayer, time in nature).
  • If attacks persist or you’re avoiding life, book CBT and discuss medications.


Comments

3 responses to “Coping with Panic Attacks: Tips and Strategies”

  1. Hi Neha!
    I have started reading and knowing about the mental health problems such as anxiety, panic attacks and depression in the last 1-2 years. My focus remains on understanding the fundamental issue and searching for practical effective solutions.
    When I have a query or question I do search it on Google and YouTube.

    It looks like we have become ambitious and highly end goals oriented in the recent years. This pushes us to try beyond our limits.
    Most competitive exams aspirants are consuming information much in quantity and their complexity. The objective nature of the questions lacks subjectivity.
    Happiness, mindfulness, love, care and satisfaction are subjective experiences. We do read and hear stories that doesn’t we don’t care about the real life events.

    The problems we face are linked to our past social conditioning (sad memories, embarassments, bullying, guilt, major achievements, home sickness, the happiest moments, inspiration, motivation).
    We see ourselves in a certain way; we feel that way.
    When you did most things alone in the past, were encouraged for individual/personal achievements, today you feel guilty when you fail to achieve big targets & milestones.

    I often face inner conflicts, dilemma and confusion because of how others see me and what I feel right for myself.
    Your personal achievements are guided by your personal, family and social responsibilities.
    But you feel bad when you see your family members are struggling on their own, they are behaving carelessly; they HOPE that on one day everything will change — they rely so much on that special occasion that they compromise with their present lifestyle.
    A person who’s strongly emotionally connected to their role within the family and the family itself will check carefully what they’re trying to achieve.

    We want PROGRESS but “at what cost”? Will we be able to compromise with the loss of our social and emotional connections over our career and academics?
    I have valued the people so far. I have the deep respect for the people I do have today and what I do have. I feel contented.

    But the truth is some moments are alone. I do need people, I ask for the help, but more I reflect and revise my thoughts I get more clarity.
    People are suffering more than me. Their pain is more than mine.

    Based on my knowledge, understanding and efforts if I am able to work for enough people I will do that honestly and mindfully.

    The anxiety, panic attacks and some sad days are there. You cannot skip them.
    Sometimes the systems on smaller levels feel suffocating rather than providing security and growth. And you get out of them or detach yourself then.

    I heavily rely on my mind, for everything.
    I see my phone as a tool which allows me to explore my various interrests — getting latest relevant information, noting down my thoughts and opinions, and connecting to progressive people. My screentime ranges between 5-6 hours on average therefore.
    I have tried this. I am able to reduce my screentime to 2-3 hours when I wish.
    My phone has helped me to explore my academic and career interests effectively.

    I don’t know why I feel so — I wish if there would be a person in my life who follows me everywhere— in my happy, sad and exciting moments; who listens me, supports me, and give ‘a usual company’ that would be enough.
    I am good, in general — mentally, physically and emotionally. I have developed a progressive positive attitude and I am HOPEFUL.
    I am not too much obsessed with money, fame or power I revolt when I feel I am being oppressed.

    It takes COURAGE and I’m restarting everything from the scratch. I will reread the books of class 6th, 7th…upto 12th. I want to make “my fundamentals” enough strong, so that I don’t fear or hesitate when I apply them. Still the task of expanding and advancing my knowledge is a challenging one.
    I need time, space, comfort and patience.
    I am actually SLOW, but that works for me. When I tried to take shortcuts and twist things I ‘failed miserably’.

    Life is unexpected lol.😂 😂 That’s why it’s interesting also!
    But if you start feeling anxious and panicking on every next moment/problem/challenge it would be hard to survive in this world. You also don’t know how to live a meaningful, happy and cheerful (which’s not the case with me).

    “Ignorance is bliss.” Focus on what drives you and what matters to you. Otherwise you’ll be regretting later (your energy is not the same in your 30s than your 20s).

    Thank you for sharing this, Neha!

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    1. The post is well researched and depthful.
      It’s helpful for many of us.

      Above comment is lengthier. I stretched it out of the context.
      I appreciate your efforts.
      Thank you for sharing!

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    2. Hi Lokesh,
      Thank you for sharing your experiences so openly. I can see how much thought you’ve given to understanding anxiety, ambition, and the role of family and social conditioning. You’re right, our past does shape how we see ourselves, and the pressure of progress often makes us question what we’re sacrificing along the way.

      I really appreciate your point about reflection bringing clarity and how you’re consciously balancing career goals with human connections. Even your approach to technology and starting again from the basics shows a lot of self-awareness. Life is unpredictable, as you said, but holding on to that hopeful attitude makes a difference.

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