The Book That Grows With Me

If there’s one book I could read over and over again, it’s The Bhagavad Gita. It’s not just a book to me, it feels like a living, breathing guide that speaks to the soul differently each time I open it. I honestly believe it’s one of those rare texts that evolves with you. What you understand from it at 18 is very different from what it reveals to you at 28, 38, or 58. It grows with you, silently, like a wise companion walking beside you through the ever-changing seasons of life.

From a psychological perspective, The Gita is a masterpiece of emotional regulation, cognitive clarity, and inner balance. Arjuna’s conflict on the battlefield of Kurukshetra isn’t just about war, it’s symbolic of the mental and emotional battles we all face. Every day, we stand on our own little battlefields, torn between duty and desire, confusion and clarity, action and inaction. The way Krishna gently but powerfully guides Arjuna through his paralysis of analysis speaks directly to our modern anxieties, especially for people like me who feel deeply, think a lot, and are often caught between spiritual reflection and worldly responsibility.

What fascinates me is how The Gita speaks to both the psychologist and the seeker in me. It’s not about blind faith. It’s about awareness, about understanding our nature, our tendencies, our attachments, and our dharma (purpose). Psychologically, it promotes acceptance, mindfulness, non-attachment (without apathy), and the idea of “karma yoga”, doing your work with dedication but without clinging to the outcomes. Isn’t that what we strive for when we talk about emotional resilience and well-being today?

Spiritually, The Gita is a quiet revolution. It dismantles the ego gently but firmly. It doesn’t ask you to renounce life but to live it more consciously. It teaches you how to be in the world but not consumed by it. And in moments of confusion, it reminds you that you are not just this body or this fleeting emotion, you are something timeless, sacred, and connected to a greater whole.

Every time I return to it, I discover a new layer. Some days, a verse on selfless service uplifts me. Other days, a reminder to surrender the burden of control calms my anxious mind. There’s always something relevant, something healing, something deeply aligning. It feels like therapy and prayer rolled into one.

In the fast-paced, noisy world we live in, especially when you’re someone who tends to live more inwardly, like me, The Bhagavad Gita becomes a sanctuary. It’s the book I turn to when I’m overwhelmed, unsure, or just seeking stillness. And I know, no matter how many times I read it, I’ll always find something I didn’t notice before.

So yes, The Gita is the book I’ll keep reading again and again. Not just with my eyes, but with my heart, my doubts, and my longing for something more meaningful. It reminds me that the answers are never truly “out there”, they’re always within.

Daily writing prompt
What book could you read over and over again?


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2 responses to “The Book That Grows With Me”

  1. I need to get a copy of The Bhagvad Gita. Your experience certainly makes me curious.
    It was unexpected from a psychologist which is a pure science according to me.

    But, then, it’s hard to not be religious when you are born in India. The materialistic life don’t have all answers, and gaining knowledge can also make someone egoistic.

    There’s also a space for a spiritual angle, a spiritual explanation. Then our experiences & realizations are important than hearing from others.

    Thanks for sharing!

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    1. Yes, being a psychologist doesn’t mean I can’t be spiritual too. In fact, The Bhagavad Gita helped me see things beyond what science can explain, especially when it comes to inner peace, purpose, and detachment. It’s true, material life doesn’t hold all the answers, and personal experiences often teach us the most. I really hope you give the Gita a read, it’s a timeless guide. 🙏✨😊

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